March 31, 2019: Waiting Bridesmaids

Discussion Questions

Do you find it easy or hard to wait for something?

When have you had to wait longer than you anticipated?  How did you respond?

Are you always prepared, or are you more likely to wing it?


Acting on the Word

Whenever you have to wait this week (in line at the store, to meet someone, etc.), use the time you wait to pray.  Does that change your experience of waiting?


Daily Readings

Sunday:         Matthew 25:1-13        The Parable of the Bridesmaids

Monday:       Psalm 90                     Psalm
Tuesday:       Matthew 22:15-33      Questions for Jesus

Wednesday:  Matthew 22:34-46      The Greatest Commandment
Thursday,:     Matthew 23:1-36        Woes
Friday:          Matthew 23:37-39      Lament over Jerusalem

Saturday:       Matthew 24:1-28        Teachings of Jesus

What do you learn about being a disciple of Jesus from these readings?

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March 24, 2019: Invited to the Feast

Discussion Questions

Do you like attending wedding receptions?  Why or why not?

Have you ever turned down an invitation to a party?  Why or why not?

In what ways is gathering for worship like gathering for a party?

What things in your life make you “too busy” to spend time partying with Jesus?


Acting on the Word

Invite someone to join you for a party, a meal together, a cup of coffee, or for worship.  If they agree, pay attention for ways God is present with you as you are together.


Daily Readings

Sunday:         Matthew 22:1-14        Parable of the Wedding Banquet

Monday:       Psalm 81                     Psalm
Tuesday:       Matthew 20:17-34      Works of Jesus

Wednesday:  Matthew 21:18-22      The Fig Tree

Thursday:      Matthew 21:23-27      The Authority of Jesus Questioned

Friday:          Matthew 21:28-32      Parables of Jesus

Saturday:       Matthew 21:33-46      Parables of Jesus


What do you learn about being a disciple of Jesus from these readings?

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March 17, 2019: Generosity or Fairness?

Discussion Questions

When have you felt you were treated unfairly by an employer?

When has your generosity been questioned by others?

When have you been shown grace?


Acting on the Word

Pay attention for those moments when you feel resentful about another’s good fortune.  Try to respond to your annoyance by praying for them and for yourself.


Daily Readings

Sunday:         Matthew 20:1-16        Parable: The Generous Boss

Monday:       Psalm 16:5-11             Psalm
Tuesday        Matthew 16:1-12        Teachings of Jesus

Wednesday:  Matthew 16:13-23    Jesus Foretells His Death
Thursday:      Matthew 17:9-27        Teachings of Jesus

Friday:          Matthew 18:10-14      Parables of Jesus

Saturday:       Matthew 19:1-30,       Teachings of Jesus


What do you learn about being a disciple of Jesus from these readings?

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March 13: Lanesboro activities cancelled

The fog is still quite dense, the gravel roads are close to impassible in places, and there are multiple reports of flooded roads, so all afternoon and evening activities at Lanesboro United Methodist Church are cancelled today.

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March 10, 2019: Unforgiving Servant

Discussion Questions

Have you ever loaned money to someone and not been repaid?

How did that feel?

Have you had to repay a loan?  What was that like?

What do you find the hardest to forgive?

When have you experienced forgiveness from others?

Acting on the Word

Identify those you need to forgive, and work on forgiving them.

Daily Readings

Sunday:         Matthew 18:15-35      Forgiveness

Monday:       Psalm 65                     Psalm

Tuesday:       Matthew 14:1-12        Death of John the Baptist

Wednesday:  Matthew 14:34-15:9   Teachings of Jesus

Thursday:      Matthew 15:10-20      Teachings of Jesus

Friday:          Matthew 15:21-28      Teachings of Jesus

Saturday:       Matthew 15:29-39      Teachings of Jesus

What do these passages say about what it means to follow Jesus and/or obey God?

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March 3, 2019: Cross and Glory

Discussion Questions

What do you think or feel when you see a cross?

What does “take up your cross” mean to you?

Do you feel closer to God or farther from God when things are difficult?

Have you ever had a “mountaintop” experience?  What was it like?


Acting on the Word

Use a cross or a crucifix as a focus for prayer this week.  Hold or gaze at a cross for at least 10 minutes, prayerfully reflecting on the meaning of the cross in your life


Daily Readings

Sunday:         Matthew 16:21-17:8   Cross and Transfiguration

Monday:       Psalm 41:7-10              Psalm
Tuesday:       Matthew 13:47-53      Parables of Jesus

Wednesday:  Matthew 18:1-9          Who Is the Greatest?

Thursday:      Psalm 146:7c-10        Psalm
Friday:          Psalm 51:1-3                Psalm
Saturday:       Matthew 13:54-58    Rejection of Jesus at Nazareth

Does the reading relate more to theology of cross or a theology of  glory?

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Wheats and Weeds: A Sermon in the Midst of a Blizzard.

Our Scripture: Matthew 13:24-43 (please read first)

Recently, my husband and have been watching the 1980’s police drama “Hill Street Blues,” thanks to the wonder of internet streaming services. Hill Street Blues focuses on the lives and work of the officers of (fictional) Hill Street police station in an unnamed US City. The Hill Street precinct is the poorest, most crime ridden and gang infested precinct of the city. Its problems and challenges are too numerous and too deep for the officers of Hill Street to fully address, although they do their best. The police station is led by Captain Furillo, who manages to stay calm and grounded in the midst of it all. Captain Furillo and some of his lieutenants have forged a relationship with the gang leaders, a relationship that is tense and imperfect, but has reduced the violence some. They try to do the best they can for those living in their precinct.

At one point, the local news outlets run a story about the most crime ridden most violent block in the city: a block within the bounds of the Hill Street precinct. The city’s Police Chief, who is running for mayor and wants to look “tough on crime”, orders Furillo to do a multi-day sweep of the block, essentially arresting anyone on the street. While Captain Furillo disagrees with this approach, one of his Lieutenants—Lieutenant Hunter—is all for it. Hunter has long felt that a “no tolerance” policy is needed and is convinced that most of those living in the Hill Street precinct are criminals and degenerates. He wants to purify the precinct and get rid of all the “bad actors.” Now, with “Operation Big Broom,” he can do just that. They begin making mass arrests. Within a couple of days, a judge puts an end to it, after seeing a stream of frivolous arrests fill up his courtroom. The operation didn’t make the block any safer in the long-term. It did, however, further damage relationships between the police and the local citizens: citizens who were now more suspicious and fearful of police than ever. It also eroded the relationship between the police and the area judges. Hill Street precinct continued to be messy, crime ridden, and complicated.

In many ways, the Hill Street area is not unlike the field Jesus describes in the first parable today. The owner of the field planted good seed but, Jesus says, an enemy came and planted weeds in the night. When the plants sprout, the servants come to field, expecting to see only “good” wheat plants—perhaps even expecting them to be lined up in neat rows. But what they find is a messy, weed infested field. Their first instinct is to clear all the weeds out, to achieve a “pure” field of only wheat. Imagine their surprise when the owner tells them to let the weeds be. My grandmother Short, who lived with us as I was growing up, was a gardener. Letting weeds be, leaving them to grow amongst her beloved and carefully chosen plants, was definitely NOT part of her gardening practice. She knew that weeds soaked up the water and nutrients “good” plants needed. She knew that leaving the weeds could weaken and even kill the plants she intended to raise. She would have been all for getting rid of the weeds in that field immediately, just as those servants were; just as Lieutenant Hunter and the Mayor were.

But the landowner has a different viewpoint. He, too, is concerned for the wheat, but he—unlike the servants—can see that removing the weeds now will also do damage to the wheat. Perhaps he knows that some of these weeds have wrapped their roots around the roots of the wheat, so that pulling up the weed also pulls up the wheat. Certainly some of those arrested in “Operation Big Broom” were guilty of serious crimes; getting them off the streets was an admirable goal. But what about those whose only “crime” was walking to the bus stop to go to work? Or what about the kids who watched the police round up their parents for no apparent reason? What damage, what harm is done to them?

Perhaps the landowner doesn’t trust his servants to be able to distinguish between wheat and weeds. Some commentators on this passage suggest that the weed involved was darnel, a plant that looked so much like wheat that it was hard to distinguish until the ear of grain formed. The owner is worried that the servants in their haste and in their desire for a ‘clean’ field will pull up the wheat along with the weeds. The landowner doesn’t seem to have a lot of confidence in his servants making the distinction at harvest-time either: he specifies that it will be the “harvesters,” not the servants who will separate them. When Jesus explains the parable, he names the harvesters as the angels. The servants are never identified in Jesus’ explanation, but presumably they are Jesus’ followers. Regardless of the identity of the workers, it is clear from Jesus’ explanation, that it is the angels, not us, who will do the separating.

Our job is not the “clean up” the messy field. Our job is not to work to make the field “pure” or orderly. Our job is to tend to the plants of the field—both wheat and weeds. The reality is that our world, even our church, is messy and complicated. Wheat and weeds are closely inter tangled and we simply do not have the wisdom or the perspective to reliably tell the difference between them. Furthermore the presence of the weeds does not mean that God is not present and at work. Remember, Jesus said this is what the kingdom is like: messy, containing both weeds and wheat. All too often the good can appear to be outnumbered—as weeds can outnumber wheat, as flour can outnumber yeast. The kingdom can also appear to be too small to make a difference, like a small amount of yeast or a tiny mustard seed. And yet the kingdom IS there, at work in the midst of the messiness and the seemingly overwhelming odds. Our job is to let God work through us to offer grace and love to both wheat and weed. We don’t need to know which is which to do our job.

This morning, as most of us in Western Iowa are huddled in our homes in the midst of a blizzard, thousands of our fellow United Methodists are gathered in St. Louis for a special session of General Conference, the highest governing body of our denomination. Only about 860 of those gathered are voting delegates: the rest are volunteers, Bishops, observers, etc. This special session of General Conference is devoted to finding a way forward for us as a denomination in the midst of our disagreements about human sexuality, particularly about same sex marriage and the ordination of “self avowed practicing homosexuals.” Passions run high; there is deep concern about justice and about faithfulness to Scripture. There are some voices—both among those who yearn to be fully inclusive and welcoming to our LGBTQ+ brothers and sisters and among those who believe that Scripture forbids same sex romantic relationships—who seem to be seeking “purity.” Who want to rid the field of all the weeds for the sake of the wheat. The progressive voices who are seeking to clear the field are deeply concerned for the harm done to those among us who are LGBTQ+. The conservative voices who are seeking to clear the field are equally concerned that we not harm the faithful by teaching and living out what they believe to be a theology contrary to the Bible.

While I lean more progressive than conservative on the issues before our denomination at General Conference, I am distinctly uncomfortable with the push—on ANY side—for purity, for a weed-free field. Reflecting on this parable these last two weeks has helped me see why: purity or the absence of weeds is not the kingdom. And to seek to root out all the weeds now does great harm to the wheat, in part because none of us—whether we progressive, centrist, conservative, or just “complicated”—has the perspective or the wisdom to reliably know the difference. My prayer for the United Methodist Church is that we find a way to live together as a messy field, knowing that we are a mix of weeds and wheat, but also knowing that it is not our job to sort it out. Our job is to offer God’s love and mercy to everyone. Our job is to proclaim the Gospel boldly, to state clearly what we believe, to stand up for justice. Our job is to live in the midst of the messiness, the injustice, the brokenness in doing so offer a glimpse of God’s kingdom. Please pray for our church—both locally the denomination as a whole—that we may be the presence of the kingdom in a messy world and a messy church.

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